Coffee and Cocktails at the Casa

Monday, May 13, 2024

I will tell you about the weekend; don’t worry! I have two college graduates! And it was Mother’s Day this weekend – and Mason was in a play that ran from Thursday to last night – Whew! It was a full one! But today I am joining the Share Our Lives ladies here for this month’s topic…

5 favorite and 5 least favorite foods

If you a regular reader you know that I love and appreciate good food. The older I get the more bougie my food tastes get, I think. But this is also a good thing because I am not willing to waste calories on mediocre food or foods I don’t love. I think had I answered this question even 5 years ago I would have said more sweet things in my first list, but I think I have changed.

Top 5:

1. Potatoes
2. Good bread – bad bread doesn’t tempt me. I won’t touch a bread basket if I am in danger of losing a tooth.
3. Cheese
4. Eggs in most any form, but I don’t want a runny yolk
5. Good salads and mediterranean are one of my favorites. I like all salads, though. Just don’t put nuts or pine nuts in it. I like salads that involve most all vegetables and fruit combos, too, like spinach and mandarin oranges. I love vegetables both cooked and raw.

Bottom 5:

1. Nuts! I have never liked nuts. Put nuts in your baked goods and then I will not touch them. I do love peanuts and pistachios. I hate pine nuts, too.

2. lima beans and peas – nope! I taught my sisters how to pretend to eat your peas but actually put them in your napkin.

3. Lamb, duck, scallops – I don’t know. Just don’t like them. Oh, or squid or octopus. Yes, I have tried them. Not a fan. I could honestly do without lots of the meat family.

4. Green peppers – too harsh. I don’t really like red or yellow, either, but they seem more palatable.

5. Olives – neither color appeal to me. Green are too briny and black have no taste but bad texture. I do like dill pickles, though, so you would think I would like green olives. I don’t like capers, either.

I couldn’t even make myself find pictures of the things I hate.

That was fun! Do you agree or disagree with me on any of these foods?

Amy

Friday, May 10. 2024

It’s finally Friday and I am happy to link up with Andrea and Erika!

I had a really relaxing weekend last weekend and I wanted to show you a favorite from my happy place – my backyard and my two patios. I normally have this chair folded on my upper patio, but I brought it out to the yard on Sunday and it was divine. Here is mine if you are looking for a gift for yourself or for Father’s Day.

The sun coming through the trees is another favorite from the weekend!

Andrea made popovers recently and shared and I remembered that I had been on a popover journey a few years ago. I already had the pan and I thought it would go well with my Monday night dinner. I used an easier recipe than Andrea’s – less ingredients.

I sometimes forget how good and easy wraps are. I had a lunch alone when Erica was out this week.

I’m still plugging along on this cute book. I really want to get more in this series but they aren’t at my library. Every summer I do give myself some summer gifts for making it through another school year – lol. Maybe this will be my treat?

My high school friend and the author of Host It Notes, Beth, came over to meet EO and brought him a margarita! He loved it!

We had some photogenic moments this week…

We have a school playground behind our house and that is where our dogs get to walk. Tom taught EO to go down the slide!

I was listening to Mid Life Matters podcast which I believe Tanya recommended and they talked about an easy scone recipe.

I had all the ingredients so I thought why not? I would like to try a savory version with cheese next time maybe?

425 for 8-10 minutes

Mix one cup self-rising flour with a bit less than one cup heavy cream. Make it a crumbly texture. Add in the chocolate chips. Make the dough into a circle and flatten (I didn’t even need a rolling pin) and then cut like a pizza with your pizza cutter but separate the 8 triangles so they can bake.

They aren’t super sweet but I will definitely make them again!

What were your favorites this week?

I hope you had many!

Amy

Thursday, May 9, 2024

It’s Thursday and I am linking up with Kellyann and Jill. You haven’t seen me since Monday and that’s because I am giving myself grace for the rest of May unless I get inspired or see a link up I want to join. I’m sure that will end up happening, but I don’t feel any pressure.

I will be here for Friday Favorites, Hello Monday, and Fashion Files. Ladies, how can you give yourself grace during the month of May? Another thing I have committed to is easy dinners where it is more heating up things than cooking! We’ve had spaghetti, fish sticks, and already cooked chicken from Trader Joe’s. My goal at the end of every school year is to not arrive there totally depleted! This never happens, but one can have that goal.

Here is what I wore out last Wednesday late afternoon to the steamboat race party (part of the Derby festivities). These are really old Target denim-like drawstring shorts, my J.Crew Factory blouse, my J.Crew consignment cardigan, and then I did switch sandals to a bit higher pair and I regretted it.

A school outfit…I wanted to wear all my jockey earrings and just found pieces to match each pair of earrings!

I forgot to get a photo, but the next day I wore the same black pants, another white shirt, and another pair of earrings that were silver and black.

Sunday for Cinco de mayo I wore my most Mexican looking kimono with black cut offs and a black v neck.

I repeated that for school Monday but with a swing dress:

And, I knew I wanted to wear long skirts this week because I haven’t had a spray tan – lol.

Tuesday I wore this:

It’s my ON cafe scene tee with a long consignment crinkly skirt, a consignment cardigan, and my Crocs Brooklyn sandals which were comfy enough for a whole day of teaching.

What have you been wearing lately?

Amy

Monday, May 6, 2024

This was one of those weekends that both felt long and short. I had Friday off so it was a three day weekend! I am linking up with Sarah and Holly to share what I did.

Thursday after school Erica came over for a quick happy hour and because she wanted to see how much Eddie Otis has grown. She left and I made dinner and we did the normal evening routine. I stayed up a little later than I have been, so that was nice.

Friday my piranha puppy let me sleep until 6:20 and Tom had taken him to bed at 8:30 the night before so I was nervous. Thank you, Eddie Otis! I felt great after a week of very little sleep. We do puppy playtime on the floor after breakfast and after he gets worn out, he naps and lets me do blog stuff. Then, we did a walk and he let me do my laundry and a load of towels (his laundry – puppies make lots of dirty laundry).

Awwww – warning that there will be lots of EO photos in this post!

How does one get up and do things when you have this to cuddle?

It was a rainy dreary day and I didn’t feel like I was missing out on the Kentucky Oaks (day before Derby). I watched the outfits and some of the coverage on tv, though, throughout the day.

I offered to bring EO to Tom’s work for the first time and it made Tom slightly more popular.

Eddie Otis is really a sleepy boy most of the day and until after dinner, really.

Various napping positions here… Boy, is it nice to have a lap dog for a bit!

In the late afternoon, we went outside.

Then, it was time to meet Daddy at the vet! My kids say that I should not call Tom “Daddy”, but oh well. Tom met me and we both got to hear that his weight has officially doubled now. He got a couple of shots and was definitely a good boy. Mason was home and wanted Mexican takeout so Tom picked it up and I took EO on home.

We woke up Saturday to more rain…but everything is just so green!

I made an egg scramble for Mason and I.

I did a little morning reading. Years ago, I asked myself what I liked so much about vacation and I answered myself that I liked drinking coffee and eating outside, reading outside, and the slower pace. So, I have tried to replicate the things I do on vacation at home. I’m sure this is not a revelation to anyone, but I made these practices intentional many years ago.

My new smart oven told me it was Derby…

I found out when it is a good time to go to Trader Joe’s – Derby Saturday morning!

My project this weekend was to work on cleaning and sprucing up the patios and getting some new plants and flowers.

I also wanted to make Derby foods for just our family on Saturday. I made hot brown sliders, benedictine spread, and set out a few things I didn’t make.

Tom pressured washed the patio and the rug and got ferns to hang, too.

I got myself the recent Southern Living and of course, it had Derby day stuff!

I watched Derby coverage on and off all day and finally when it was time for the big race I sat on the patio in the rain and watched on my phone.

A former student got to sing My Old Kentucky home with the U of L choir:

For dinner, we had all already eaten all day so I didn’t make anything else.

Yesterday morning, I got a nice photo of my big boy:

He has learned “sit”!

Another niece had another prom:

I only went to one store on Sunday and it was Dollar Tree. I found some cute sets of blank cards that I like to have on hand.

Jack and I made a cake and used the Hershey’s Cocoa frosting recipe on the package again. We made our cake from a box and subbed the veg oil for butter.

Eddie Otis learned what mowing was yesterday. Look at his little butt following behind Tom. He would follow for a bit and then run back to me.

My chartreuse press on is still going strong as of typing this on Sunday afternoon.

I’m excited to buy some summer colors but I’m making myself use what I have for now.

Tell me something about your weekend!

Because I have such a busy few weeks ahead, I am planning to only post on Monday, Thursday, and Friday unless I am able to join another link up.

Amy

Friday, May 3, 2024

Happy Friday! It’s a really happy one for me because we don’t have school! It’s the day before The Kentucky Derby here in Louisville and that is called Oaks Day. So many teachers were taking it off that they decided to make it a flex Professional Development Day so technically I already worked today over the summer.

I am linking up with Andrea and Erika to share some favorites!

I shared some of these in my Currently post Wednesday, so forgive me! Also, if you had a busy week like I did – here is Hello Monday, Share Your Shelf, Fashion Files, and High Brow (a post about eye brows!)

I am tired. I had a good week of sleep last week, but at the beginning of this week Eddie Otis was restless at night. Then, I think I was restless or went to bed too early or too late. I firmly believe I have a window for optimum sleep or optimum falling asleep. Are you like that? Also, my back hurts. These can also be end of year teacher problems and not just new puppy problems.

Last College Payment happened this week! When you have twins, you have a condensed and intense situation on your hands!

A lot of you talked about this in the comments and there have been a lot of questions about their next steps. I may do a post on that even though I do try not to talk too much about their personal lives here. Today (to be exact) we will have Mason moving home and we will have four humans and one canine under the roof for at least a year I would say.

I love bringing the outdoors in and using Mason jars! I saw someone post a beautiful teal Mason jar and I need that!

I found this at my Kroger and tried another good flavor – Hazelnut. So far, I have tried and loved Cookie Dough and Hazelnut.

I have had the black Sand and Shore from Target for years and added the silver. I am really loving the look for only $10! These seem to be more useful than flip flops right now for the multiple puppy trips outside. We have to carry him down the back steps still. He can go up them if he feels like it but he often whines to be carried up.

Still really want these or something similar.

Trader Joe’s does it again and for under $7. This was recommended as a good wine for summer. Bonus that it has a screw top so you can take it on a picnic or elsewhere. If you like chenin blanc and have a TJ’s try this!

Erica and I are still sharing lunch duty. A fave this week was my breakfast/brunch. We had low carb egg casserole, one piece of bacon, potatoes, brussels sprouts, zucchini, mushrooms, and onions and a side of one tiny cinnamon roll, French bread, and dill havarti cheese.

Eddie Otis doesn’t like my frother. I laughed when he was backing away…

So cute so far…

I’ve loved my green mani this week! Again, I use Impress press ons that I order online. I like the petite size but can also deal with short. These are petite and I only had to file them slightly.

Shay mentioned this chicken breast and I love it! It’s from Trader Joe’s and I put some with pasta and ate some on its own this week. I can’t wait to buy it again.

And, Jack approved of this and wants it again!

I’ve had fun this week wearing my Derby earrings!

If this isn’t cute, right? Tom is so happy!

And, the rest of my Derby earring collection…

Wednesday night, we took Eddie Otis to a steamboat race party and he swam in the river!

We had a tired puppy after all the fun!

I found my college graduation picture with my bestie and roomie Heather:

Wow – if that girl only knew!

And, I couldn’t love this more. There was a fun little book at the library that had mottos for surviving work life and I didn’t check it out but snapped this photo:

Did you know weekend work emails are illegal in France? Close the computer and eat a croissant!

I had to work hard at it, but I stopped checking emails after work hours and on weekends. Sometimes I break my rule, but not often. We have a lot to learn in this country, don’t we?

What were your faves this week?

Amy

Thursday, May 2, 2024

This is my second post of today so that I could link up with Jennifer for her new Share Your Shelf link up!

So, I almost exclusively use library books that are real books! My Kindle broke several years ago and I just went back to real books. I have saved so much money by using my library. I put in requests on the app on my phone and then go pick them up. Sometimes I browse the new releases while I’m there. I also love to have a non-fiction going at the same time as fiction. The money saved goes for new clothes and shoes!

I think we don’t change much as we get older. I still have the same hobbies that I did as a child. I loved to read, bake, be in nature, be creative and make up skits and songs. Hello – that is still me! I’ve always had that giddy feeling when I leave the library with a fresh stack of books.

I don’t worry about reading super intellectual books because reading is enjoyment and escape for me. With that said, I can’t read bad books or books that are written in short choppy sentences or that keep repeating details like I’m dumb. There are several popular authors that I just cannot read. I’m sorry to those of you that enjoy some of these authors.

My sweet spot is a chick lit book that is also funny. Sarah Adams is a new favorite author. Cara Bastone is new to me, too. I just finished this:

I just started this:

In my last library pick up:

I have quite an eclectic mix here!

I love to check out cookbooks because I don’t want the clutter and I would want to check it out before committing!

I read all year long, but I usually read 20-30 books in the summer. I also would call myself a “fair weather reader” because I read more outside than inside for some reason. I just love reading outside!

I read on every car trip my family took and my family knew that I was in my own world and wouldn’t respond if I was reading. They had to really get my attention to pull me away from the story. I love that I am a reader. My Dad also took a book everywhere and said that he could never be bored if he had a book. Awww!

What’s on your shelf?

Amy

Thursday, May 2, 2024

It’s Thursday and time to link up with Kellyann and Jill. I’m actually doing two posts today so I can be part of two link ups – so check out my other post, too!

This was a school outfit. I’m wearing my last year Target blouse (Tanya’s rec!), my new Umgee pants, and just white Madewell sneakers. Eddie Otis is trying to play with my pants!

Friday was senior awards and I had to dress up. I wore this old Target Knox Rose dress and consignment Target heels that are a dupe for a more expensive brand. They are pretty comfortable, but I did bring a change of shoes for after the ceremony.

Saturday errands and spray tan day called for all black. This photo was taken in J.Crew Factory where I did not purchase anything! I’m wearing Walmart cut offs that are a couple of years old, a very old Target knit top, and my very old Birks.

I wanted to wear my few years old gold lace up sandals, but I think this looks weird. I wore the same cut offs and put on my Old Navy blue and white stripe button up. I ended up half tucking and not knotting the shirt. I wore this to dinner on a patio.

Sunday I wore this to the farmer’s market. These pink cut offs are the same as the black from Walmart a few years ago. The top is very old from Costco and is starting to yellow a bit.

Monday for school I wore this dress so I could wear matching Derby earrings. This week is a four day week and I have four pairs of Derby earrings now! Ha!

The next day I wore this with my pink Derby earrings! I wore this Old Navy top that I also have in black and blue with my Amazon pink pants that I cut off and left frayed. They have remained frayed without getting ratty.

And, I have been wearing my new silver faux Birks from Target!

What have you been wearing lately?

Amy

Wednesday, May 1, 2024

Happy May 1st! Let all the Justin Timberlake memes commence! Today I am linking up with Jennifer for Currently – a fun post where we talk about things we are loving, looking forward to, seeing, reading, and wanting currently!

Loving

I shared my monthly money diaries from January 2023 until November 2023, I think? This was to help me be more intentional with our discretionary income. I’ve also written posts on saving money and my frugal bougie nature. I think people should talk more openly about money, to be honest. So, my loving is this…

We made our final college payment! We have twins who are graduating this month – I cannot believe it! They worked really hard and got great scholarships but it’s still expensive. Also, they had to take out a small loan to have some “skin in the game”. They are also signed up for a deal that their loan repayment is matched if they make under $40,000 when first out of college. No problem! We are going to help them budget to start making those payments right away to take advantage of basically “free money”. I was so scared of the cost of college but we did it. We also managed to renovate some spaces in our home and take a dream trip this Christmas. We sacrificed a lot during the last four years, though. Tom and I haven’t celebrated yet, but I plan to come up with something. I was thinking of making a “college meal” – ramen, pizza rolls, etc. and make a sign that says “we did it”! Do you know how many verbs I had to conjugate to pay for their college? Ha!

Looking Forward To

I’m nervous but looking forward to boating. We plan to take Eddie Otis out so he gets used to it. I think we will start with short boat rides and avoid super hot days. He won’t be able to swim like our pro Ernie right away. We don’t keep our boat here, but I love this view of the boats.

Seeing

Did you know that azaleas and rhododendrons are toxic to dogs? We’ve never had a dog interested but Eddie Otis has literally been pulling buds and leaves off of our front landscaping and trying to chew them. Once we found out that was not good, we stopped taking him out front to potty or we kept him far away from the landscaping. Anyway, I don’t know why I hadn’t thought to do this before. I trimmed some azaleas for a mason jar and they look so pretty!

Reading

This book – just started it but I’m already obsessed with Danish life and really want to go to Copenhagen.

Just finished this and have another Cara Bastone book coming for me at the library.

I am still continuing my streak of not buying books, but I may let myself buy a summer read or two on the really popular books that are in high demand at my library.

Wanting

I bought these silver faux Birks at Target. Silver is really trendy and I know how much I wear these – even more than flip flops these days.

These are out of stock at Target, but I signed up to be notified when they come back in. I can see myself reaching for these a lot!

I try not to buy shoes at Target, but I know that some of my fave summer sandals have come from there. This is the time of year when my dogs are always out in sandals and I will need a new pedicure soon, too.

What are you up to Currently?

Amy

Tuesday, April 30, 2024

A few years ago I noticed my brows were changing. I’ve never really had to worry about my brows. They’ve always been thick (not quite Brooke Shields thick, but pretty thick), and honestly, I didn’t know I was supposed to worry about them. In the 90s I got them waxed. I guess I did that for some time. I never plucked them to death and I never got them waxed super thin except one time when I went to a really bad waxer.

I can’t believe what a difference brows make in your overall face. They make you look younger, more awake, and just all around better, in my opinion.

Exhibit A:

What is going on? One is higher than the other. One is thicker than the other. These are definitely not identical twins and I’m not even sure they are fraternal twins. They are a hot mess.

Exhibit B:

Better?

I’m really not great at makeup but if I can use these low brow (won’t break the bank) products, anyone can.

They are both by elf:

First I start with the pencil end:

I follow that with the spooly end and just brush them out and make them look more natural. I end with the black brow mascara product.

These products last me a really long time because I don’t use that much at a time.

I hate to browbeat this topic. I finished this post by the sweat of my brows. Please don’t knit your brows and trust me on this.

Where do you stand on brows?

Amy

Monday, April 29. 2024

It’s Monday and that means link up day with Holly and Sarah!

Let’s go back to Thursday evening because I usually finish my Friday post Thursday morning, so this didn’t make my Friday Favorites!

We took Eddie Otis to Waldo’s Chicken and Beer and he slept in our friends’ arms the whole dinner! They fought over him, to be clear. We told them we promised he was an active puppy most of the day!

Models leaving the dinner:

Like father like son. Tom was wearing his Barbour jacket from England and we thought it looked like an ad. No, it was not that cold, but Tom apparently thought it was.

Friday I had to be on stage for senior awards day.

I got a Class of 2024 cookie!

For dinner I made breakfast foods and we went to bed early. Both of us were worn out. Can we please go to a 4 day work week?

Saturday morning Tom went hiking with a friend and I single puppy mommed it from 8-4. We spent a lot of time on the upper and lower patios.

I was even able to read during morning nap!

My latest press on mani lasted 8 days:

I was so tired I couldn’t count, but it was 8 days.

Later in the day I went to Trader Joe’s, the library, and to use my last spray tan of the month,

I got this:

Tin-Tin (my Swedish blog reader and friend), this book is so cool! I can imagine you going to all of these places.

I was able to read while EO napped and it was wonderful.

Daddy came home and EO needed a bath:

Another night, another patio for EO.

We went to Limestone Yacht Club where the nice owner brought him his first big boy dog bowl of really cool square ice. He thought it was his job to get all the ice out of the bowl.

This guy has now doubled in size in just 3 weeks. Tom took this picture after dinner and he just looks so big!

And, yesterday for Sunday Funday, we went to the opening of the afternoon farmer’s market.

We had some friends come and meet EO and we sat and talked for a bit. Tom and Eddie Otis got really tired.

On the way home we picked up our Kroger order and then Tom got some tv time and I got some patio reading time while this guy kept on napping.

We had a really lovely weather weekend – 80s! It was a really nice one.

What about you?

Amy